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Sex, Lies and Politics

Posted by Kimberly Michalski Posted on: 08/09/08

Sex, Lies and Politics

     I was duped big time. At the risk of being called naïve, I gave Edwards the benefit of the doubt - because ultimately I would rather wear a ditz label than wrongly accuse an individual of such an incredibly ill noble, self-centered, moronic deed as cheating at a most inopportune critical moment in history.
     It was pretty easy to rationalize the innocence of someone whose family had gone through prolonged crisis. John Edwards was in the spotlight. For a moment or two he was the spotlight and his ailing wife right along with him. What a symbol of unity if ever there was one.
     Even O'Reilly wouldn't finger wag given the condition of Edward's wife. So why do we blind ourselves and think the very best of those who are innately as human as we are?

     Maybe at the end of the day we want leaders to believe in, leaders that are bigger than base - paragons of virtue who empower us to stand up with the same strength with which they stand. And we want to see that virtue for more than a fleeting moment.

    It's not too much to ask that our politicians start acting like the noble men and women we elect them to be when they hold honorable offices, which represent our United States of America.

    Infidelity statistics in our country are staggering. I understand that politicians are not responsible for the choices that Americans make, however, I wonder: If Washington started behaving with character, loyalty and integrity what message might ring out to families all across our country who find themselves victims of turmoil and temptations.   

    Why do we make excuses for dishonorable behavior? Some animals treat their partners with more dignity and honor! I'm weary with nodding my head and feeling ashamed for the conduct of our leaders. Call me old-fashioned, sanctimonious, living a pipe dream - or whatever!  It's time Americans behaved above their own character for their family's, their faith's, and their country's sake.

    We find ourselves leading depraved lives when we believe we can do anything without accountability. Do you think Mr. Edward's would have had the affair if his best friend were privy -keeping him in line? Would he behave the same if he knew his wife was watching?  Heck no!  Some individuals think they're too smart, clever or above reproach. Vassar, Harvard, Princeton-nor any institution, affiliation or membership can make people too smart, clever or righteous for accountability. Still, may we all wise up.


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  • The ordeal can get far more complex if Edwards is indeed lying about this love child--As he keeps claiming it is not his. Ultimately his girlfriend may be offered enough money to get a test done--then Edwards might have to come up to the plate and take the paternity test which he said he would take. Again torturing his wife and family through the entire process -- even if he is innocent. It is pretty sad!
    By The Photo Ranger on August 18, 2008 02:54

  • I agree with you. Integrity and character are very important. If a politician lacks either, then why would we trust that candidate with our futures. I'm in amazement that one of our "top" candidates is an associate of a Weather Underground member, yet no one seems to bat an eye. Great article.
    By L Wallgren on August 22, 2008 03:28

  • This was sad, wasn't it. We always hope for that leader with the integrity we aspire to. For me, it's too bad that he lied about it. Perhaps he and his wife have an open relationship. Given her illness, it may work for them so that he can get needs met that she might be up to meeting. (Given some of her statements, it doesn't sound like this is the case.) The point being, the lie bothers me more than the relationship. That part is for he and his wife to worry about. But, yes, another model brought down in stature. Sad.
    By allison on September 20, 2008 03:45

  • I agree it's likely his wife wasn't supportive of an extramarital relationship. When this story broke, my heart sunk. If nothing else, I hope it's a reminder to Americans to guard against the pitfalls. Who wants to be responsible for lowering the bar, and hurting others on their watch!!
    By Kimberly Michalski on September 20, 2008 13:25

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